He's just not that into u

Dah lama bgt aq png baca buku karangannya penulis dan konsultan "Sex n d' City"(Greg Behrendt dan Liz Tuccillo) "He's just not That Into You" aku tau ttg buku ini dari Acara Oprah show di tv ampe skr aq blm nemuin di toko buku ktanya sih stoknya abis, klo ga dah ga available lagi. So jadinya aq baca di internet soal resensi buku itu, emang segimananya sih isi buku itu ampe aku penasaran png baca, ga tau juga sih secara pribadi aq ngerasa buku itu gua bgt he..he dalam hal relationship ma cowo2 (ex-boyfriend. red) sedikit banyak bikin aq memahami Y things never go as I want if it comes to the word relationship. Jadi inget terakhir aq nangis ma cowo 2thn yg lalu,aq marah karena dia sama seperti banyak laki2 "who had been with me" ga bisa MELIHAT kalo I'M NOT A STEREOTYPE GIRL aq emang bukan wonderwoman kaya si M-J, tapi aq heran.. kenapa sih semua makhluk TololKuadrat itu ga bisa ngeliat aq sebagai AKU dan tidak membandingkan garis miring menyama ratakan aku dengan makhluk lain bernama HAWA. aku ya aku... dengan kualitas dan kekurangan aku sendiri.(wah ko jadi esmosi gini ya hehehe)Aq pernah sakit hati ditinggal a.k.a. diputusin, aq pernah sakit hati digantungin, begitupun sebaliknya aq harapkan samacowo2 yang pernah, mungkin juga akan, aq tolak, putusin atau digantungin. Kenapa??? karena aq selalu taruh garis batas dalam hati aq, aq harus siap ketika aq putusin buat jatuh cinta maka suatu saat ujung tali jodoh juga bertemu (whether good or bad, it's destiny).Tapi problem nya... aq selalu berharap hubungan yang aq ciptakan itu berdasarkan dari sikap jujur dan terbuka. Which I never could find in man. Dan kebohongan-kebohong an itulah yang aq temukan sebagai arti"He's Just Not That Into You".We all dated the same MAN (Aq copy dr resensi buku di internet )

• He didn't call u, when he promised to

• He didn't ask u on an official date

• He didn't want 2 or avoid 2 have S-E-X with u (oke kalo ini mungkin ga dilakuin oleh muslimah hehhehe peace maklum bukunya kan bukubarat)

• He had S-E-X with someone else while in relationship with u(wow kalo ini ekstrim)

• He comes 2 u and be nice 2 u only when he's drunk (lebih ekstrim)

• He didn't or avoid the MARRIAGE THING while in relationshipwith u

• He broke up with u (shit happens)

• He suddenly a magician a.k.a disappear

• He's married to someone else (and expect u to wait 4 his widower? yeah.. get real man)

• He's a jerk, selfish jerk, obsessive jerk, annoying or just a total freak

The above mention itu kriteria cowo2 who REALLY... I MEAN REALLY NEVER INTO U. For that kind of man, u're just a barbie to play with. So girls... never shed ur precious tear when u broke up. U better cry forlosing ur parents, bestfriend or a pet, but never for a MAN(exceptional for men who really treat u like a lady).

Ps: For Gals, hati2 klo nemuin cowo kya gini "dont waste your time to love him"

For Guys, please don't ever be like a kind of this man, respect your girl!